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Ned Stark vs Arya Stark

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Ned Stark

Game of Thrones

ISTJ The Inspector Enneagram 1

The honorable lord who brought northern rules to a southern knife fight.

Strengths

  • Keeps his word when it costs him
  • Fair and consistent with everyone
  • Takes personal responsibility for hard calls
  • Steady, protective father and friend

Weak spots

  • Assumes others play by his rules
  • Slow to adapt when the game changes
  • Swallows objections until it is too late
  • Treats mercy to enemies as non-negotiable

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Arya Stark

Game of Thrones

ISTP The Virtuoso Enneagram 8

A girl with a sword, a list, and zero interest in embroidery.

Strengths

  • Fearless and fast in a crisis
  • Learns any physical skill quickly
  • Loyal to family through everything
  • Sees through lies and pretense

Weak spots

  • Holds grudges for years
  • Struggles to let people protect her
  • Can turn cold faster than is healthy
  • Ignores rules even when they matter
  • Treats revenge as a to-do list

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How they compare

They share 3 of the four letters (Introverted, Sensing, Thinking).

Where they split: Judging (Ned Stark) vs Perceiving (Arya Stark).

On the Enneagram Ned Stark is a 1 (The Reformer) and Arya Stark is a 8 (The Challenger).

On our profiles they are listed as a good match for each other.

Who wins this match-up?

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