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Emily Gilmore vs Rory Gilmore

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ESTJ

Emily Gilmore

Gilmore Girls

ESTJ The Executive Enneagram 3

Hartford society queen with impossible standards and a surprisingly soft center.

Strengths

  • Organizes any event flawlessly
  • Fiercely committed to family, in her own way
  • Sharp, witty and impossible to fool
  • Reinvents herself when life forces her to

Weak spots

  • Shows love as criticism and control
  • Cares too much about what society thinks
  • Holds others to impossible standards
  • Schemes behind people's backs
  • Rarely admits when she is hurt

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INFJ

Rory Gilmore

Gilmore Girls

INFJ The Advocate Enneagram 9

The bookworm with a five-year plan and a talent for dodging conflict.

Strengths

  • Reads, learns and absorbs at an incredible pace
  • Kind and polite to almost everyone she meets
  • Works hard toward long-term goals
  • Loyal to her mother above everyone else
  • Makes people feel heard

Weak spots

  • Avoids conflict until it becomes a crisis
  • Takes criticism as a verdict on her worth
  • Drifts along with other people's plans

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How they compare

They share 1 of the four letters (Judging).

Where they split: Extraverted (Emily Gilmore) vs Introverted (Rory Gilmore); Sensing (Emily Gilmore) vs iNtuitive (Rory Gilmore); Thinking (Emily Gilmore) vs Feeling (Rory Gilmore).

On the Enneagram Emily Gilmore is a 3 (The Achiever) and Rory Gilmore is a 9 (The Peacemaker).

On our profiles they are listed as a good match for each other.

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